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2012-10-25 15:57:00

以下是引用cute-wheat在10/25/2012 1:51:00 PM的发言:

 


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Absolutely agree


 


When I got out of my previous relationship 10 years ago, it was so difficult to believe that I could still possibly have a life, fall in love again because the only man i ever wanted, loved was gone!


But guess what, that experiene taught me so much in my new relationship (the one I have with my current LG), instead of using my heart and nose diving into a relationship, I use my brain...... of course, heart still plays a big part, just not 100%


I started not having any income when i met my husband, now I will be making twice as much...... To be financially indepedent 简直太爽了! i am a firm believer in 经济基础决定上层建筑. .... So i agree with every word you said..... especially since I have been on both sides of the fence.


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2012-10-25 22:25:00

eightguan mm, 不知道为啥,2次了你回帖都显示不出来。。囧。我之前拿iphone 华人app回帖也没显示出来。。
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以下是引用龙图在10/25/2012 11:55:00 AM的发言:

 

i wish I had this kind of wisdom when I was your age!

 

I feel exactly the same way but it's never too late right?

Btw, the nice gal book, if I rmmb correctly, is all about Big no no but doesn't provide any constructive advice on how to do it the "right" way. Well I guess all those aggressive biatchEs will figure it out on their way to the top of the corporate ladder anyway. Good entry-level book though.

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2012-10-26 00:29:00

以下是引用cute-wheat在10/24/2012 9:13:00 PM的发言:

结婚的恋爱的我推荐看the five love languages... 里面很多例子都很实用,很长见识。。我会再看第二遍第三遍滴。。。早10年。。。那是刚高中早恋完哈哈,小毛孩一个,啥都不懂

Jotting it down now
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2012-10-26 00:48:00

那5个语言是不是行动礼物甜言蜜语还有两个别的啥的?以前觉得光有行动就够了,现在想想其实都得要啊
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2012-10-26 02:57:00

affection and quality time...这5个说起来简单,貌似没啥看头,这本书的精彩之处就是书后面的举例说明,每个都很实用。我看完很是受用呢,eye opener ;)
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以下是引用rachmany在10/26/2012 12:20:00 AM的发言:

I feel exactly the same way but it's never too late right?

Btw, the nice gal book, if I rmmb correctly, is all about Big no no but doesn't provide any constructive advice on how to do it the "right" way. Well I guess all those aggressive biatchEs will figure it out on their way to the top of the corporate ladder anyway. Good entry-level book though.
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推荐几本“how to do it right”的书吧,除了fcuk my way to the top lol.
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以下是引用rachmany在10/26/2012 12:20:00 AM的发言:


I feel exactly the same way but it's never too late right?

Btw, the nice gal book, if I rmmb correctly, is all about Big no no but doesn't provide any constructive advice on how to do it the "right" way. Well I guess all those aggressive biatchEs will figure it out on their way to the top of the corporate ladder anyway. Good entry-level book though.
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that's right.


Last night i was watching "Vanilla sky" for the 2nd time after many years, the "moth" girl said: look around you, every second that passed, it's the opportunity for you to turn everything around......  that almost give me goose bumps....


 


I read the nice girl book back in 2007, now you mentioned it, I do think they focus more on what not to do rather than what to do....but it's pretty refreshing to me, guess I was carrying some of the "nice girl" tendencies with me and that book helped me to consciously avoid those behaviors..... it certainly has paid off...


 


well, today is Friday and I am still sitting in the office  :-(... good house keeping opportunity though, taking care of things that have been putting off during the week.


 


 

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以下是引用cute-wheat在10/26/2012 2:59:00 AM的发言:

推荐几本“how to do it right”的书吧,除了fcuk my way to the top lol.

do they even have a book like this LOL

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2012-10-26 21:09:00

以下是引用cute-wheat在6/4/2012 10:31:00 PM的发言:
同意, abc的确有好的,我date过的那个律师男,就很稳重,会一点中文,感觉和土生土长的中国男木啥区别

我想听你对律师医生的看法!我认识的一个男生在很忙的律所(billable hour = 2100/yr) associate一年多,一直不知道该把他放在哪个category里。
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