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Huaren
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瞌睡

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2013-08-21 16:58:00

以下是引用cute-wheat在8/21/2013 4:52:00 PM的发言:

呵呵,我见过的漂亮姑娘各个都很自信。从来不会觉得this guy is out of my league. 流露出来的那种自信都不是刻意的,很natural, from within. 你不觉得么

我觉得27-35的漂亮女人很自信,就你说的这种。25以下还需要很多异性的attention才能确认自己的魅力。不过很多姑娘都是这样的,在自卑与过度自信之间飘摇。 本子上要记下多少个男人追过自己才能确认自己是美丽的。很多人一生也grow out不出这个pattern, 到老了就邋里邋遢。
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2013-08-21 17:01:00

以下是引用feirourou在8/21/2013 4:55:00 PM的发言:

 

thx. but not only this, he loves to talk politics, economics, government, blue music, animals, these topics are his passion. but i found it boring. i told him he is boring after date 2. he was shut down ever since. maybe i hurt his ego.

Now, I am officially confused, you think he is boring, but you think he is physically attractive and you have some sort of connection. He shuts down after 2nd date, and now he loves you. How do you guys communicate? eye contact?

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2013-08-21 17:04:00

本来觉得自己还可以,结果这两天吵架几乎决裂的原因就是他提到公司来了个亚洲mm多么多么美丽,我一看那照片真的像他失散的姐弟那样登对,有木有!而且真的是放之四海而皆美的那种,五官身材无可挑剔。可惜人家刚订婚了一猪头。

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2013-08-21 17:05:00

以下是引用feirourou在8/21/2013 5:04:00 PM的发言:

本来觉得自己还可以,结果这两天吵架几乎决裂的原因就是他提到公司来了个亚洲mm多么多么美丽,我一看那照片真的像他失散的姐弟那样登对,有木有!而且真的是放之四海而皆美的那种,五官身材无可挑剔。可惜人家刚订婚了一猪头


dislike. so judgmental

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2013-08-21 17:06:00

以下是引用瞌睡在8/21/2013 5:01:00 PM的发言:

Now, I am officially confused, you think he is boring, but you think he is physically attractive and you have some sort of connection. He shuts down after 2nd date, and now he loves you. How do you guys communicate? eye contact?
[此贴子已经被作者于2013/8/21 17:03:36编辑过]

 


we had millions of txt, hrs calls, meetings etc. in 6 months. strangely, we can talk for long. about english, about culture diff here and china. etc. he talks "boring stuff" i just listen and input sometimes.


 


when i said shut down it means not gf/bf relationship.  


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2013-08-21 17:09:00

以下是引用feirourou在8/21/2013 4:43:00 PM的发言:

 


我愣了一下,装做没看到,还像往常一样侃侃而谈我的前男友多好,因为早两天不是和这个lawyer吵大架了吗,就举例说明在这种情况下我前男友会怎样blahblah, 但是他接着说难以相信我在如此情境下还在说前男友,接着说他可以理解但希望我们有我们自己的故事,不一样的。这是一个几乎从不撒谎的人。


 


我也没说什么,看看晚了就xxsl, 但是没睡好。今早他又重申了一遍昨晚说的是his heart.


 


it's not about what he says, but sth he said really touched my heart. when someone is sincere you just know. you can feel it. i am old enough to feel it. well i know again. qwheat mm said follow head not heart.


 


i am confused now. i told him i need time to digest what he said.


wow. i just read this. one of the worst things u can do in front of ur date. shame.

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2013-08-21 17:09:00

以下是引用cute-wheat在8/21/2013 5:05:00 PM的发言:

dislike. so judgmental


 


我看了照片好不好,都一公司的律师同事。那个男的各方面都远逊色过这女的。女的是有脑有胸的大美女!

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2013-08-21 17:11:00

以下是引用cute-wheat在8/21/2013 5:09:00 PM的发言:

wow. i just read this. one of the worst things u can do in front of ur date. shame.


 


1. it is not my date. we are close friends for last 6 months.


2. i remember you did the same thing on your first date with your fiance too. crying over ex. ;)

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cute-wheat

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2013-08-21 17:11:00

and if i were this lawyer, i would have already kicked ur ass outta my life. thats how a man think: if ur ex were so wonderful, why didnt u go back to him? why chose to be stuck with me? hmmmm interesting.


yes, ur old enough to "feel" things. u sure are old enough to have a mindset that works for ur age.


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Huaren
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cute-wheat

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2013-08-21 17:13:00

以下是引用feirourou在8/21/2013 5:09:00 PM的发言:

 


我看了照片好不好,都一公司的律师同事。那个男的各方面都远逊色过这女的。女的是有脑有胸的大美女!


still, dislike. if u wanna argue, look elsewhere. dont judge a person if u have never met or talked to him/her. very disrepectful. and I want to warn u something - u can judge a stranger as much as you want in your head, but dont tempt to share ur thoughts with ppl u know.  

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