以下是引用xiaobaozi529在8/26/2013 4:17:00 PM的发言：

补问个问题啊。

像这种贱人要怎么识别阿？除了发短信被我看出的破绽以外，基本上滴水不漏阿。。。这次我lucky，被我看到fb的聊天记录了。否则我到现在还是蒙在鼓里的。

 

我的朋友见了他都觉得印象很好（当然，带他见我朋友就是一个错误，我自我反省）

 

其实就是前天晚上，我好朋友过生日，我们三个女生就一起吃饭。他发短信说，我和我朋友在xxx喝酒，we should link up if you or your friends want. 我和朋友正好吃完了也要去酒吧的，就去了。气氛相当非常之好。

 

想这种奥斯卡影帝要怎么识破呢？除了多长个心眼以外？

以下是引用Happyapple123在8/26/2013 4:40:00 PM的发言：

I remembered that when I visited my ex as friend (we were just friends at that moment) he said he had a meeting with a friend afternoon and let me do sth by myself. After he got back, I asked him, did you date that girl? He said no, jut a normal meeting. Then a few days later, he invited that girl to come to his house for a dinner ... I cooked the dinner. So how about just asking straightforward?

以下是引用咪咪噢在8/26/2013 4:57:00 PM的发言：
楼上的怎么会在这种情况下煮饭给人吃？还有什么叫normal meeting?

以下是引用Happyapple123在8/26/2013 5:04:00 PM的发言：

I was in USA for a travel since I had a B-visa which would get expired. He paid all food when we dining outside..so I cooked some food for him when we didn't go outside for food. We were just friends and I was his guest. Then after I asked him that question, he asked me to cook a dinner and invited that girl to come for the dinner... I don't know what is called normal meeting. Actually he said its just a meeting.