One more more??????No way...

去不去，我没法给你定夺。你要是想去，就去吧，但我会建议你在你ex不在的时候你去。免得尴尬。我想，如果你ex想见你，他早晚会知道你去见过他妈妈的事，如果他想叙旧，他肯定会来找你。这个你大可放心。当然我不知道你是否有想回头的意思，这个是后话，这里就不多说了。average man的事，我很理解。我相信，你不是一个单纯的很物质的姑娘，也许很多嫉妒的人会觉得找有钱男人的女人们很shallow. 我不这么认为。我找的是那种有钱还要有高素质的男人。就像瞌睡之前说的，要的不是钱，而是那种氛围，quality time, extraordinary experiences. 眼界的开阔。你之前不是说和你那朋友在一起了吗？分了又？

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He is sick recently and we turned back to be friends... some shit happened in his life because of his friends. He is unhappy which makes me feel unhappy. I feel its hard to communicate and said we should break up for some space for each other... He didn't reply to me...

Ok, I will see if could set up an appropriate time to visit his mom.

Well, the story is like it: He is sick. I asked him if he had beer with his best friend for the dinner. He said 1. I said, you are sick, don't drink beer until get completely recovered ok? He replied to me, I do what I want. I replied to him Ok. After the workout, I tried to communicate with him that we cannot talk in this way. I text him that, I understand he was very happy dinning with his best friend and its the best time for beer. I just think its not very good to have alcohol when taking medicine.. He said Its ok. His reaction reminded me my step-father who sometimes does something childish... which drives people crazy...

I said, you are sick, don't drink beer until get completely recovered ok? -- u dont talk like this to ur man. okay? UR WRONG. the problem is u, not him. no guy likes to be told like that. his reaction was perfectly normal. i know u meant well, however, u delivered it in a very bad way. and to make things worse, u havent realized it yet.

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as soon as you start the "accusation" by stating "dont", ur man gets into a defensive mode. in fact, it works for everyone.

呵呵，the more you act like his mother, the more he acts like your child. 孩子都是逆反的。 何况，我也受不了别人这么唠叨我，那我还不如搬回家跟我妈住，效果一样。