一人有一人的生活方式，还有待人接物的方式。没有孰对孰错，只要自己觉得好，适合自己就行。我反正是不会100%的相信人，让我死心塌地的相信一个人是绝对不可能的事。

Haha, I am thinking, when you try to trust someone, will he/she think about you are silly? Maybe in some case...

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In the Tao, the author said that, lots of men think women who are initiative are attractive... how do you think about it MMs?

read between the lines. 那个作者旨在说明“暗地勾引”，并非你理解的直接追男人。直接追的行为在大部分男人看来没啥吸引力。也许对方会上钩，但很难重视你。想这么干什么，难道你打算倒追？

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有些人会这么看吧。对他人太多的信任，只会在将来伤了自己。对交情不深的人，他们的话我不会刻意去怀疑，but def take it with a grain of salt.

Haha, No! I was wondering why it is different from the dominant perspective that men are the pursuers... Thank you for interpreting it Wheat!

不用谢，没事可以学学如何be flirtatious.. 我倒不觉得这是轻浮的表现。玩的转交谈和举止的flirtation, 其实很有魅力

I agree! It needs talent and practice ...

A pregnant woman gets into a car accident and falls into a deep coma. Asleep for nearly six months, she wakes up and sees that she is no longer pregnant. Frantically, she asks the doctor about her baby. The doctor replies, "Ma'am, you had twins! A boy and a girl. The babies are fine. Your brother came in and named them." The woman thinks to herself, "Oh no, not my brother -- he's an idiot!" Expecting the worst, she asks the doctor, "Well, what's the girl's name?" "Denise," the doctor says. The new mother thinks, "Wow, that's not a bad name! Guess I was wrong about my brother. I like Denise!" Then she asks the doctor, "What's the boy's name?" The doctor replies, DeNephew.