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魅力值太低看不到啊5555

慢慢看着学到好多。。。感谢感谢！

从只看楼主，到5700层一楼一楼仔细看，到反复看做笔记，这高楼爬得腰酸背痛腿抽筋的。不过谁让他值呢？本姑娘愿意！

为后面没时间一层一层爬楼的妹子们做点贡献，先把楼主推荐的书看了。下面是摘录楼主的句子：

总结下我看过的三本约会书籍，很有意思，侧重点不同，各有各的好，相信我的话都推荐看看


the tao of dating, 从精神层面深入剖析约会


why men lov/marry bit ches, 用我的话说就是钓男手册，dating in a practical way.


become your own matchmaker, 作者从女方favorable的视角阐述恋爱约会到结婚的每个环节，how to love yourself and get the most of it.



what every body is saying这本书真不错，看的俺津津有味


The five love lanuages, 我强推，恋爱的结婚的都该看看，写的太好了。我想我以后会经常翻此书的

也不说什么我要是早点看到这个帖子就不会走那许多弯路的废话了，什么时候改变自己都不晚。 认真体会，运用到实际，效果一级棒。套用一句广告词，谁用谁知道！我喜欢小麦说的一句话，大意是：很多人会说道理我都懂，就是做不到。其实是道理你没懂，所以做不到。如果知道是毒药，你还会喝么？ 小麦，我暑假在bay area实习，求勾搭。还有可以短我你的微博么，还有你QQ群建起来了啊，求加入。

还有几本书，楼主和其他几位蕙质兰心的妹妹推荐的，我都摘录下来了，大家按需抓方吧。看后一起讨论啊。
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Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In

Get the Life You Want: The Secrets to Quick and Lasting Life Change with Neuro-Linguistic Programming

Think and Grow Rich

The Pocket Stylist: Behind-the-Scenes Expertise from a Fashion Pro on Creating Your Own Look

Change Your Thoughts - Change Your Life: Living the Wisdom of the Tao

Don't Take the Last Donut: New Rules of Business Etiquette

Make Peace With Anyone: Breakthrough Strategies to Quickly End Any Conflict, Feud, or Estrangement

Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most
The One Hundred: A Guide to the Pieces Every Stylish Woman Must Own

当心里小鹿乱撞，觉得要犯错误时，就来翻翻。还是很有收获！ play hard to get实际运用起来不是那么容易滴～～～～