以下是引用sexyandiknowit在7/16/2012 1:51:00 AM的发言：
I did feel that I could do better and I still couldn't pinpoint exactly why. He was such a sweetheart, so in love with me, gave me all that he could, and he was smart, tall, good looking and motivated.  We were just two kids...who loved each other but hurt each other in the worst way possible. He is happy now with someone else, and I am happy for him. I wasn't the best person in that relationship and If I could, I'd take back lots of things I said to him. But I can't...

以下是引用sexyandiknowit在7/16/2012 1:54:00 AM的发言：
Ever since then, i have gone out with dozens of guys, some of which are extremely successful alpha-males but I blew them off all. My ex treated me so well and I don't know if I'll ever meet someone who is that good to me again :(

以下是引用sexyandiknowit在7/16/2012 1:54:00 AM的发言：


Ever since then, i have gone out with dozens of guys, some of which are extremely successful alpha-males but I blew them off all. My ex treated me so well and I don't know if I'll ever meet someone who is that good to me again :(

以下是引用cute-wheat在7/16/2012 2:08:00 AM的发言：
你会的。相信我。start off giving urself positive vibes. 我在失去我ex时，我也颓废了好久，我好友直接给我来一句，i dont give a shit about how you feel. get ur shit together and just f ucking do it. 也许你需要这样严厉刺耳的教育。看mm的英文，应该是个聪慧的女子。道理你在你的post里也说了很多，不要再沉溺于过去，过去的就是过去。时间再久些，你就会明白，你这样很不值。让我说的太狠些再血淋淋些，你ex根本没那么爱你，别跟我说什么so in love with you. 一个真正so in love with you的男人不会选择你这样那样的错误而选择放弃你，他会留在你身边，和你一起选择克服。所有选择move on的王八蛋前男友们都有这同一特质。你如果这能明白，那你还选择怀念过去，只能说，你在作践你的生命。我敢这么说，都是我的个人恋爱经验而来。我的ex就这样。我的现任让我明白，是你的就是你的，不是你的就不是你的。我本来也打算专门写我的现任和我ex 的事的



Thank you! You make me feel so much better!!! lol

以下是引用turtlezhuzhu在7/16/2012 2:08:00 AM的发言：
mm, I have been there before, we all have. And it took me two years to really move on. The way we feel about a guy will change with time, the reason that right now you still think that it was your fault in the relationship and he has everything you want is simply because you haven't met a new guy who is good enough to let you forget your last relationship. I used to blame myself a lot when I got broke up, always wondered those useless "what-if" all the time. But what's done is done, mm you deserve someone who will truly appreciate who you are, don't let the past haunt you anymore. The best guy in your life is yet to come! :)


Thank you :) I believe so too. I deserve somebody great :)

以下是引用turtlezhuzhu在7/16/2012 2:08:00 AM的发言：

mm, I have been there before, we all have. And it took me two years to really move on. The way we feel about a guy will change with time, the reason that right now you still think that it was your fault in the relationship and he has everything you want is simply because you haven't met a new guy who is good enough to let you forget your last relationship. I used to blame myself a lot when I got broke up, always wondered those useless "what-if" all the time. But what's done is done, mm you deserve someone who will truly appreciate who you are, don't let the past haunt you anymore. The best guy in your life is yet to come! :)