在外面闯闯总是好的,况且自己太NAIVE了,用偶朋友的话说,不太适合在国内发展.

Yes. Life experience is more important to me than any kind of result to me. Seriously.
When i say yes, it doesn't mean, I'll stay abroad forever, I'll come back to my home country finally, probably. Going abroad makes you learn much more than you can expect, which helps you mature sooner than usual. Especially, for people from single child families.

我会选择留在国内

如果当初老公没来美国的话，我应该不会离开家的。

恩.后悔了,不该出来.倒不是说对现在有什么影响,主要是想到老了以后,想回国去,但那时由于常年不在国内,早没有了自己的社交圈子,肯定孤单.在美国养老就更孤单了.还有孩子,想到自己的后代将会是个ABC就觉得很别扭,将来再娶/嫁个金发碧眼的,受不了了.....