在knot上找的，可以去knot查询。这个网站有所有婚礼相关的文章。 Ceremony Bride and family pay for church or synagogue, sexton, organist and so on. Groom and family pay for marriage license and officiant fee. Wedding Attire Bride and family pay for bride's dress, veil, accessories and trousseau (read: lingerie and honeymoon clothes). Groom and family pay for groom's outfit. All attendants pay for their own clothing, including shoes. (Here's a full list of costs the bridal party is expected to cover.) Flowers and Decorations Bride and family pay for floral arrangements for the ceremony (including a chuppah if it's a Jewish wedding ceremony) and reception, plus bouquets and corsages for bridesmaids and flower girls. Groom and family pay for the bride's bouquet, boutonnieres for men and corsages for mothers and grandmothers. Honeymoon Groom and family pay for the complete honeymoon. Photography Bride and family pay for all wedding photos and video. Prewedding Parties Bride's or groom's family plans and hosts the engagement party; if there's more than one, the bride's family hosts the first one. Groom's family plans and hosts the rehearsal dinner. Maid of honor and bridesmaids host the bridal shower and bachelorette party. Best man and groomsmen host the bachelor party. Friends may throw additional engagement parties or showers. Reception Bride and family pay for all professional services, including food and decorations. Groom's family pays for the DJ or band and liquor. Rings Bride and/or her family pay for the groom's ring. Groom and/or his family pay for both of the bride's rings. Stationery Bride and family pay for invitations, announcements and wedding programs. Transportation Bride and family pay for wedding transportation of the wedding party to and from the ceremony and reception.

感觉比较合理的是钻戒和对戒男方出，婚纱自己买弱弱的问一下，如果是跟美国人结婚，婚礼钱谁出呢？钻戒男方买，对戒要我买吗？婚纱的钱应该谁出？可以要求男方负担全部吗？

好像美国人结婚是女方家付大部分的费用，我身边大部分跟美国人结婚的都是女方家付的，只有个别的是小两口一起付的，都结完婚1年了还在还贷款。