两年前的时候，我几乎得到了一个我们行业top one company 的offer, 这是两年前人家给我的回信，可是我那时候怕老板，他又不给我办opt,同时我怀孕了，就错过了去这个大公司的机会，虽然拿到master后，一边生宝宝，带宝宝，读博士，可是心里很不痛快，而且我们专业很偏，老板在行业里的影响力很大，但是现在越读越痛苦，索性从一个月之前开始找工作，是换了专业找的，现在拿到两个onsite,但是怎么和人家解释我又读了博士，又要quit 呢，另外H1要10月份才生效，我又没有opt了，如果cpt,那老板知道公司的名字，马上就能把这事给搞砸，心里好烦啊

I would definitely encourage you to discuss your career options with your
: professor and family as well.  Take your time and discuss these concerns
: with them.  When you are ready - email me some preferred times in the next
: few months when you might be free to spend about two days in our company
:  to see our facility and interview with some engineers.  We will cover
: you travel costs and can probably accommodate any time you prefer.
: After the visit, we will discuss your credentials and if things went well
: will make you a job offer to start after your work at your university.