We had a simple ceremony in our favorite place by the waterfront.
Sarah is sitting.
I straddle her hips pinning her down and hold her face in my hands.
“Do you want to submit to me?”
“Yes Sir.”
“Are you my submissive?”
“Yes Sir!”
“You are mine! I promise to take care of you.”
We have limited and locations for time together.
Fortunately Sarah has access to an apartment a few days a week that we can slip into.
No more backseats like horny teenages.
We explore each others bodies.
Learning them.
I am teaching her how to pleasure me properly.
I am teaching her how to enjoy being pleasured by me.
It is a wonderful time for us.
Two days ago I established a few Rituals that Sarah must follow.
I texted her and told her to remove anything under her skirt except for her panties.
She is eager to please me.
When I arrive she started practicing our meeting Ritual right away.
She knelt in front of me.
I showed her how to arrange her skirt around her so her bare legs touch the ground.
She looked up into my eyes and said the words I told her.
I was pleased.
Sarah is a very good girl.
I pushed her forward onto all fours for inspection.
She is not to wear anything beneath her skirt except for panties.
When the initial Ritual complete, clothes melted away and we fell into bed with passion.
The kisses, the caressing, the bondage, her submission to my needs are what I need.
They are what I require.
Sarah is eager to give me what I require.
We are very happy with our new D/s relationship.
上文说到 我先生 established a few Rituals that I must follow and here they are:
共十三条。我分几层楼贴上、、、、
- The Mark - Never remove Sir’s mark from your body. Always remember this mark is the symbol of our marriage and your submission to Sir.
- Title - Always use “Sir” or “Master” when in private.
- New Rituals - Review this Rituals page once a week.
（"New" 是因为本来没有的，一个月后来他加进来的。还记得当时他并没有告诉我，等了一个星期后才问我上星期有没有阅读此 Rituals page。我当然没有啦，既然都已经把所有Rituals 记在脑了，何须？结果领教了, 被他借意 打了 我 Butt 几下.）
他现在不再借意打我 Butt，有机会顺手就来。例如我们排排坐在沙发看电视，吃饭，我站起来去给他拿甜品或喝的，他就会趁机打我一下Butt 。我总会 「嗯啊!!!」的发出一声。他说我好打，就像一个 squeaky duck。
Skirt - Whether in public or in private with Sir, only wear skirts approved by Sir.
(说起裙子，头几年的要求都是长度不许短过我脚眼以上两寸的。
还记得我有一天穿了一条长度在边缘的裙子。如果我把裙头往下拉一下就够长。明明在家里也用尺子量过了，够长才穿出来的。结果因为我的腰最细的部位比较偏高，所以穿了一会儿走动时 很快裙头自然会往上移，我后来做回顾出错在哪裏才留意到的。他遥远一看裙过短就不高兴。下班后一进宅门，他不许我跪或坐，要我先站着，问我为什么选择穿犯规的裙子。我还不认，他拿出尺子自己来量，数据证明他是对的。我的butt 又挨打了。 之后经验教训，我为此特意买了几条一定够长的裙子来循环一套套的交替穿上。不需要每天左度右度后才选择穿哪一条裙子。
几年后，我们从Burning Man 回来的路上，他告诉我把这条ritual 改了，不要求我穿长裙子。可以穿很短的裙子。我问为何？他说因为over the years, the way he views me changed. Short skirt better fit the new view he has for me. 他开始亲自为我拣选短裙子买给我穿。我选择只在他身边保护我我的时候才穿短裙子。平时没有他在身边的活动，我一律穿得密密实实的，从颈包到手腕，长裙子盖到不短过脚眼以上两寸。
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Panties - When meeting with Sir you are to wear only approved panties beneath your skirt. Panthose, tights, shorts and slacks are forbidden. Thigh high stockings are acceptable. Sir enjoys direct access to your panties.
（他说我以前的内裤像一个十二岁女孩穿的，舒服但一点也不好看。他喜欢我穿漂亮的内裤。我那时还没有学习什么样设计，款式，资料的内裤才符合他的漂亮要求呢？他为了轻省我的脑力，给钱我一位闺蜜，叫她带我去买，如果看到她喜欢的也给她自己加添。还记得她教我 thong 设计的要买小一码的才穿得适合好看，我两选了不同style的，设计的，有运动型，有thong bikini 的，有蕾丝的，有透明的，有轻型的，穿上去也感觉没穿任何内裤资料的，等等，买回来摆得 玲琅满目 让他再籂选。我从观察他留那种类的内裤，退哪种类的，加上问他为何留这些，不留那些 的feedback，我更加深入了解他对我穿什么样的内裤更 turn-on. 发现他喜欢的 与 我闺蜜喜欢的完全不一样路线。他不喜欢运动型，喜欢高雅古典蕾丝半透明的委婉而不aggressive。其中有几个款的设计一直是他对穿在我的butt上的挚爱。我记住了，以后一遇上清货减价，我就不嫌购入太多的狂进货。后来他比以前有资源花给我，所以他开始自己为我挑选内裤亲自买给我穿。我两也对每一条内裤做了探讨研究，为何这一条看上去好看，但穿在我臀部上就是没有那一条那么好看呢？原来因为这条没有在两股之间有接合处，所以没有那条那么彰显出 我的臀部弧线美。以后挑选内裤就看设计缝裁便可知道了，无须买回来才知道。）
Rituals for kitten （6-7）
Commitments - Never neglect your commitments to your marriage, your family, your work or yourself.
Remember - Sir loves you very much.
（我最喜欢这个 ritual. 每次读到这都很窩心！）
Stretching - Once a day perform your stretches for Sir. Sit on the floor, place your legs straight out in front of you and spread them as wide as you can without pain. Put one hand on top of the other and reach towards your right foot. Stretch forward, place your hands on your shin and hold for three seconds. Repeat for a total of five times on each foot. Each day work towards opening your legs a little more and reaching your hands further towards your feet. Be sure to stretch as far as you can. You should experience discomfort but not pain. Your goal is to improve your flexibility to better fulfill your role as Sir’s slut.
（现在我已经发展到天天做少少瑜珈，发现许多性爱中用到的体位，都是瑜珈中有练习做的。）
Punishment -
If you fail to perform any Ritual you will be punished.
When this happens you must tell Sir what you did or did not do and ask him for punishment.
Sir will determine and give the appropriate punishment.
If you fail to perform a task given to you by Sir, you must tell Sir what you did or did not do and ask him for punishment.
Sir will determine if a punishment is necessary or if discussion is more appropriate.
If you fail to tell Sir that you failed in a Ritual or task and ask for punishment, Sir will administer extra punishment at his discretion.
Journal -
Write one or more blog entries each month on our blog.
You must submit them by 8:00 pm on the last day of the month.
Each entry must contain your thoughts, feelings and reactions to an aspect of our D/s relationship.
You can only include factual recounts of our interactions if they are accompanied by your thoughts, feeling and reactions to that specific event.
You must review and edit each entry twice before posting to ensure you are using your best writing and grammatical style.
(起初这规矩是每周起码写一则。后来由于我先生离开了我两一起工作的地方 转去另外一个工作地点，我两每天的互动少了许多，我力争减低周记变月记。)
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