我很感谢大家的合理建议，我都意义采纳。也可以有话直接对我说，你父母再不好，你对别人倾诉的时候，你也不希望旁听者这边听完这边扭过头对别人说你父母很low吧。至少生活里不会这样。

单纯觉得楼主和父母缺少沟通，本来就没有完美的父母，一味地看不惯这看不惯那也不会怎样。而且感觉楼主很依赖老公，not a good sign

+1.

楼主居然说不想听别人是你父母low，那说什么？都是社会的错？

生活里都是和你相关的人，自然不会当面负评，网上还是不一样的，对别人来讲你父母就是个成年人，就是张三李四，看到你曝光的言行免不了就会实话实评

Can't type chinese now. Lz, what is wrong about saying your parents are low or are bad parents? What is wrong about them thinking that you are not good daughter? What would you regret if you are not treating them the way they wanted? You can't choose your parent, true. But you can choose to treat them the way that they deserve. Life is too short to be correct on everything, but you need to figure out what is most important for you, and who is the most important person that deserves your love. Your parents, obviously, are not the ones that deserves so much of your emotional concern. You shouldn't even allow them to have the chance to hurt your husband and kids. Be a grown up, and judge your parents the way they deserve, treat them the way they deserve as they truly are, not just because they are your parents.

绝对有关系， 是一代人， 不是个别现象

我用了3年 才把家人的负能量改过来
家和万事兴
别管是不是一代人，动不动找别人原因
自家日子要自己过
孝顺爸妈就是要让爸妈懂道理 过得快快乐乐的

别老用学校教的试图去解释所有事情，这就是书呆子了

Well. I am just a normal person. Never say I am better than who. At least, my parents never have these low things.
Usually, people are like their parents in some way somehow. I guess it is true for your case.
If you don't want to hear people judge your parents, then don't describe their low behavior here.