所以说心理的缺陷是让人生活不快乐的根源。好好照顾孩子，别让他们这么小缺乏母爱将来有极度的不安全感

楼主我非常理解你。 我也再华人上和酱油党讨论过这个问题。一半的人不能立即为神马我不去做个安静的贵妇每天周游世界买买买。一半人不理解为什么我不做个有责任感的贵妇，做义工勤社交管理财。 我觉得你的问题其实是个自我意志/实现和女性/家庭责任/维护的平衡。这个其实是每个女人都要面临的选择。这是对于大多数女人来说，她们被经济，能力，或是家人的意志这些客观因数做了决定，自己根本就没有机会可以完全自由的自主选择。还有些女人一方面的需求是零，所以可以轻松选择，完全放弃对另一方面的追求。 所以你貌似是在问一个该怎么办的问题。其实是在问一个该怎么选的问题。只有你自己可以选了。

我就是想跳个坑赚点水费

不觉得女人体现能力的地方只能是家庭，真是自己看低自己，怪不得也不被男人看得起

Just my two cents: 1. Comparing wages in obviously two different professions is like trying to compare apples and oranges. 2. Do not confuse the concepts of a job and a career, a job is just a job-paying for the rent, earning a living, that’s it. A career is another thing, if you know where your career is, you should not complain, because all your pains and efforts will eventually get payoffs. 3. Honestly speaking, I cannot show any empathy in your case, or even sympathy, and I won’t. A lot of people in this forum are desperately looking for a job, or are currently suffering long-distance for a job. It seems to me you have a perfect family and a job that you can earn self-esteem. Now you just made a fuss about the fact that you cannot compete to your husband’s abnormally high salary, if you keep thinking like this, no need to grill: hell is other people.

财不是随便理的，弄不好，越理越少

我lg要是工资是我的十倍我就辞职追求我自己的爱好了。。。

Iz 既然不想换工作和辞职去改变现状，就不要埋怨了，你这是何苦呢？连给自己买衣服的时间都没有。挣銭多不就是为了更好地提高生活质量吗？钱挣得再多对于来说也没区别，