问题是父母一方已经被确诊bipolar了，孩子能够得到很好照顾的几率大大降低啊，何况父母另一方还很可能是schizo携带

还是别生了吧，risk太高，给自己给孩子给社会都是负担

risk 很高的话为何不选择领养 或者借卵/精子来生呢

这要是家里有基金，即使不工作，以后都不用愁，生也没关系。不过有孩子第一年真是各种鸡毛加糟心，压力会增大。

人生已经够苦的了，还要有精神疾病，就更是苦不堪言。楼主妈妈有这方面的病，楼主没有，并不代表楼主没有这个基因。再加上楼主男朋友的病。小孩得病概率还是不低的。慎重吧，不要苦了孩子。

re this one. who can declare his/her gene is perfect. might have a high cancer tendency, might not be good looking, IQ might not above 130...

Well, when I was very young, my father once told me a treatment can give 5 more years to his patient, I asked why do they even want to do it just for 5 years? Since 5 years is nothing. My father said life is like that, even a healthy person can have a car accident in 5 years, so people don't have to live at all?

So how about baby blues, depression, environmental factors also contributes. So people are regarded as bad gene as well? Well, for a high tendency, people should be careful, but world is not black and white, too many factors.

天生就有精神病的小孩人生该有多痛苦，有为他们想过吗？

顶锅盖说一句，现代医学对精神方面的那些疾病了解得非常有限，基本上不知道是怎么回事。容易把这个归于基因。