Part time 我问过HR了，说PT也得加班，而且一算工资，真的是菜钱都不够……
muffincat 发表于 1/24/2016 10:41:21 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1962082&postid=70537711#70537711]

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看了大家的回复更郁闷了………… 辞职这个事，我也想过几次了，但是我真的不适合做全职妈妈，性格和能力都是更适合上班的那种。其实以我的能力，是不应该才这个收入的，但是为了配合老公的发展，我牺牲过好几次…………所以事业才起不来…………虽然并不后悔，但是对比之下，还是不甘心 我这点工作成就，虽然不起眼，但也是我一点一滴做起来的，得到老板的认可，也不是一朝一夕的努力，放弃了真的很心痛…… 我就是性格比较认真，大小事情都希望认真做好，才把自己搞得这么累。我娃不吃瓶，为了让他多吃几天母乳，我一直坚持胸喂，晚上赶回家胸喂，等他睡了再继续加班到深夜。为了今天能多陪他一下，昨天加班到12点，今天晚上还得继续加班…………各种心酸………………muffincat 发表于 2016-01-24 23:15 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1962082&postid=70534320#70534320]

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你们不相信也正常，我有时跟老公开玩笑说，要是有人知道我们的收入差，再看看我这个累死累活的样子，肯定不相信。

这也是我自己给自己挖的坑，当初跟老公说，两个人得平等，都得工作，都得做家务带娃，不能借口工作逃避家庭责任。老公也认同了，娃小的时候陪我一起起夜，从来没因为工作忙推脱过。他也很忙的。

既然他都做到了，我不能现在才借口工资低就不做了。我是想换工作的，可是换工作没那么快啊，而且，现在至少还有升职希望…………说到底，也许我就是不甘心吧……
muffincat 发表于 1/24/2016 11:12:51 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1962082&postid=70538231#70538231]

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老公挣10 倍多，还在呼那点菜钱？

taotaohan2011 发表于 1/25/2016 2:14:12 AM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1962082&postid=70540092#70540092]

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Just my two cents: 1. Comparing wages in obviously two different professions is like trying to compare apples and oranges. 2. Do not confuse the concepts of a job and a career, a job is just a job-paying for the rent, earning a living, that’s it. A career is another thing, if you know where your career is, you should not complain, because all your pains and efforts will eventually get payoffs. 3. Honestly speaking, I cannot show any empathy in your case, or even sympathy, and I won’t. A lot of people in this forum are desperately looking for a job, or are currently suffering long-distance for a job. It seems to me you have a perfect family and a job that you can earn self-esteem. Now you just made a fuss about the fact that you cannot compete to your husband’s abnormally high salary, if you keep thinking like this, no need to grill: hell is other people.
chlorine 发表于 1/25/2016 1:57:11 AM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1962082&postid=70539987#70539987]

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Re LZ工作不是为了找存在感嘛 反正又不需要养家

ssaiyy 发表于 1/25/2016 2:44:27 AM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1962082&postid=70540224#70540224]

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