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我没有倾向老公啊，只是希望多了解别人的意见，看看我自己是不是显得过于自私，或者老公过于算计。 目前来看，观点分化： 1） 我要还钱的话就是双标，相当于清空婚前财产，对买房没有实际贡献，老公有意见很正常。 2）老公小气算计，我婚前财产如何支配与现在家庭支出买房无关，还钱给父母正常。 棕影 发表于 6/6/2016 5:26:00 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=71866196&postid=71866196#71866196]

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以前就是随口一说的啊，谁知道他拿来against现在我要还钱的proposal。 当然众人可以随便judge我二百五了。 棕影 发表于 6/6/2016 5:40:00 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=71866339&postid=71866339#71866339]

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I don't understand. It's the house you and your husband are buying for the family (you and him). Why do you need your parents' money? I would wait till you two have saved enough to buy your own house if you are short on the down payment or work out a proposal for both of you to be able to pay back the money. It's not your job alone to pay it back. What if it's your mother in law lends you and his the money? Is he planning to pay back. I think your husband needs to think about what's important. Is it money or his wife/this relationship that's important? I cannot believe any decent man would ask for his in law's money with no plan of returning even if they don't need it. Sorry I am a bit hush on this one.
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那你能理解lz爸妈换大房子，给她爸妈自己住，lz要孝敬5万美元么？ 为什么啊。 yshe 发表于 6/6/2016 6:01:00 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=71866488&postid=71866488#71866488]

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