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Huaren
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注册时间2005-10-09

lvhuaele

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2016-06-07 15:32:31

To conclude, I want to say thank you. To everyone from the intern who made me oatmeal when I woke up at the hospital that morning, to the deputy who waited beside me, to the nurses who calmed me, to the detective who listened to me and never judged me, to my advocates who stood unwaveringly beside me, to my therapist who taught me to find courage in vulnerability, to my boss for being kind and understanding, to my incredible parents who teach me how to turn pain into strength, to my grandma who snuck chocolate into the courtroom throughout this to give to me, my friends who remind me how to be happy, to my boyfriend who is patient and loving, to my unconquerable sister who is the other half of my heart, to Alaleh, my idol, who fought tirelessly and never doubted me. Thank you to everyone involved in the trial for their time and attention. Thank you to girls across the nation that wrote cards to my DA to give to me, so many strangers who cared for me. Most importantly, thank you to the two men who saved me, who I have yet to meet. I sleep with two bicycles that I drew taped above my bed to remind myself there are heroes in this story. That we are looking out for one another. To have known all of these people, to have felt their protection and love, is something I will never forget. And finally, to girls everywhere, I am with you. On nights when you feel alone, I am with you. When people doubt you or dismiss you, I am with you. I fought everyday for you. So never stop fighting, I believe you. As the author Anne Lamott once wrote, “Lighthouses don’t go running all over an island looking for boats to save; they just stand there shining.” Although I can’t save every boat, I hope that by speaking today, you absorbed a small amount of light, a small knowing that you can’t be silenced, a small satisfaction that justice was served, a small assurance that we are getting somewhere, and a big, big knowing that you are important, unquestionably, you are untouchable, you are beautiful, you are to be valued, respected, undeniably, every minute of every day, you are powerful and nobody can take that away from you. To girls everywhere, I am with you. Thank you.
Huaren
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威望4
贴子4069
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注册时间2010-07-10

Susanbabybaby

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2016-06-07 15:32:32

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Huaren
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威望46
贴子37570
魅力37326
注册时间2011-03-17

扶苏

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2016-06-07 17:37:55

我看到过很多喝醉的人,那个行为,跟平时大相径庭。不论男女。每个人的酒品不同。有的人就睡了,还有就各种各样了。两个喝醉的人会做出什么事,真不是一般逻辑可以衡量的。
Huaren
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威望46
贴子37570
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注册时间2011-03-17

扶苏

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2016-06-07 17:38:27

她也不应该把自己drunk的不省人事。美国的drinking culture太stupid了。
Susanbabybaby 发表于 6/7/2016 3:32:32 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=2024371&postid=71874556#71874556]

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中国也一样。只不过,中国告强奸的少,估计法院也不一定会判。
Huaren
等级大校
威望17
贴子14588
魅力19093
注册时间2012-08-16

只看他

2016-06-07 17:45:36

她也不应该把自己drunk的不省人事。美国的drinking culture太stupid了。
Susanbabybaby 发表于 6/7/2016 3:32:32 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=2024371&postid=71874556#71874556]

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真的可能一下喝晕了,其实没喝多少。。。以前没喝过那种酒什么的,或者很久没喝。。。。
Huaren
等级大校
威望33
贴子15095
魅力20176
注册时间2006-08-26

多旧喵

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2016-06-08 00:16:51

好像引用没成功。re扶苏:仅仅因为喝醉了,她就活该受害是吗?那个高楼就看到你还有那个susanbaby煞笔在大放厥词,居然还真有女直男癌,也是活久见。
Huaren
等级少校
威望4
贴子3411
魅力3569
注册时间2009-02-28

nami

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2016-06-08 00:17:45

真是太让人愤怒了! 她喝醉不喝醉难道还是别人犯罪的理由吗?法律有规定女人不能喝醉吗? 那岂不是和极端穆斯林想的一样,女人没有蒙头,穿了裙子,露了肩膀,就活该被殴打被rape吗? rape is rape,犯罪了就应该得到相应的惩罚。6个月的量刑实在太过分了,他爸是李刚,所以轻判就合理吗?
Huaren
等级大校
威望33
贴子15095
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注册时间2006-08-26

多旧喵

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2016-06-08 00:20:07

煞笔,你还好意思来这边蹦跶呢!最stupid的就是你,强奸就是强奸,跟饮酒文化没一毛钱关系!
她也不应该把自己drunk的不省人事。美国的drinking culture太stupid了。 Susanbabybaby 发表于 6/7/2016 3:32:00 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=71874556&postid=71874556#71874556]

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Huaren
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威望18
贴子14982
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注册时间2016-05-15

芝士年糕

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2016-06-08 00:20:53

喝醉到没意识确实是对自己的安危不够负责,但是这绝不应该成为被强奸的理由!
那个法官也是脑子进水,人都做不好学术再牛逼有什么用?放到社会上就是个高智商犯罪

因为女生没他背景厉害,成绩好,所以活该被牺牲?这种法官就该下台。
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Huaren
等级少尉
威望2
贴子1725
魅力2032
注册时间2012-02-26

Cynight

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2016-06-08 00:22:30

女生喝不喝酒是她自己的决定,不能说因为她喝多了所以她自己也要负责任。而是一个男生不能因为一个女生喝醉了不记得事情就强奸,因为醉酒的时候女生是不能给consent。没有consent就属于sexual assault。有的时候酒里被下药, 所以出去玩尤其是去frat party最好是和小伙伴们一起去玩,如果喝多了可以互相照顾。说实话现在这种校园内的强奸最后判决很多是偏向男方,很多时候男生家里有权有势,可以请很好的律师
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