以下是引用gabbie在2004-9-4 22:52:54的发言：
Darkmoon你还没有真正地悟“佛”；
等能不care别人这些说法的时候，就真的到了

以下是引用疏影暗香在2004-9-4 23:04:44的发言：

a~~~刚反应过来, DARKMOON JJ是那位做绣花工艺品的吧. 好能干啊, 那些东西我好喜欢. 不如JJ开个店吧, 别去做那些无聊的工作, 美国人应该有不少喜欢这些有点异国情调的工艺品的. 发了~~~[em00]

以下是引用疏影暗香在2004-9-4 23:06:32的发言：

俩孩子还不够他操心的, 服了. 不如你走曲线救国路线, 劝他太太再多生几个. 要不劝那男的多取几个LP, 哈, 够他操心了吧~~~~

以下是引用jami在2004-9-4 23:29:01的发言：
Don't need to care about him, soemtimes give him some unhappy color when he is talking about it ,maybe he should understand it.
Personally I would like someone to tell me what should do and what not, hehe, that's diffrent.
EEveryone like his own life.
I have a girlFriend, she would give me some suggestions if I talked with her about what I am thinking and what I may worry about,and I don't have to follow her idea every time, but it is really helpfule to me and give me some ideas of how to handling things.
So I really appreciate her friendship and idea.

Anyway, believe he is from good intention, and just a little out of his own business and he may think ur husband would like her suggestions.

以下是引用vinca在2004-9-5 10:00:22的发言：
我来斗胆冒几句自己的看法。觉得darkmoon妹妹的脾气是好多了，又是学烧菜，又是学干针线活，确实不是一般人能有这个；毅力，耐心去干的。但我觉得夫妻两个还是不要动不动说化谁的钱，即使你们的经济是独立的，最好也不要这么说。这样伤你老公的心，在别人面前也丢他的面子。最好跟你老公多商量一下对未来的打算，大家有个基本的共识，这样他也不可能在别人面前说”我也这样想，她不听“的话了。我说话直了点，希望妹妹不要生气。

以下是引用cucumber在2004-9-5 11:09:59的发言：
这样人简直讨厌到了滑稽的程度，估计mm也没心情跟他认真生气。不过不计较归不计较，大可不必跟他浪费时间生命啊。跟这样的人吃饭，不去不行吗？比如撒个谎请个假，又不伤和气又不用跟他白耽误工夫。