儿子要下车开车门，结果他朋友从第三排（SUV）推他一把，这也是为什么他两分摊

不知道能不能和对方商量，一是给现金，修不修在你，二是我们找车行修。开始都是孩子们和她联系，她就说你们找也需要保险公司认可的车行。可是压根不走保险，为啥非要保险公司认可的

这是孩子们和对方妈妈的email： the auto shop estimate Ben recently received included expenses such as the rear bumper, the inner door, and the tail-lamp which we do not believe accurately reflects the damage we caused. 对方回复 Unfortunately, the estimator told me that they have to disassemble parts of the car to access and fix the damage and then put it back together. That is the only reason I can think of that they mentioned the inner door, bumper, and tail lamp (as those are not damaged at all to my knowledge). Also, from the price of the parts listed, $237, I do not think that these are being replaced. The cost of a new inner door, bumper and tail light would be much more (we’ve paid for a new bumper before). Most of the expense in the estimate is for the labor ($1,128). After they take the door apart, fix it and put it back together, they have to repaint it so it will match the rest of the car. Th

自己的车肯定就走保险了，同学的车怕人家涨保费啊

刚看了对方发过来的2002年的volve，不知道她同意不修只是赔她现金不，或者能不能我们给修

我也没看到照片呢，孩子本来以为没多少钱，自己从tutor打工的钱出了。怎么撞的，肯定是孩子们下车逗的。现在责怪他也没用，只能说让他吸取教训，这算花钱买教训吧

刚刚和被撞的车主妈妈打电话了，他们还是要修，但是同意我们找找shop，只要不是someone's big brother.刚联系了门口专门修dent的，包括喷漆750-850。还联系另外一家，看看人家同意在哪儿修就在哪儿修吧

没敢说儿子，孩子开始想着拿自己的钱修的，一看人家要的多，不够了才告诉我。这么大孩子在一起逗也不是不正常。平时儿子很好，只能让他吸取教训。其实想想孩子们自己开始肯定藏着也有压力。又是考试的时候