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（干货都没了）从online dating说到bloody gorgeous Harvey!
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2012-10-24 13:34:00
哈 谢谢回复 那就是说那本body language的值得买喽？至于意念力嘛。。不知道，on the fence中。我本来就比较阿Q，很多事在我操控范围外的我都选择忽视，庸人自扰。很多时候都是白操心。。有那时间还不如泡几个大叔呢哈哈。脚着也许这本能有新发现呵呵。
is this the " 1st impression" book?
no
那书名是啥呀？ 另外你说推荐的那些书，看介绍挺有意思的，像我们都结婚很多年了，还能从书中受益么？ 还有，你这帖子咋不早十年写出来呀
Thank you Cute Wheat MM, your post is very interesting, although it's been so many years since I was on dating market, I still found the key points relevant to other aspects in our life, such as "less is more", "do your homework (in online profiling)" and " empower yourself instead of waitting for someone to save your life" (i am paraphrasing here hahaha)....
i wish I had this kind of wisdom when I was your age!
btw, I recommend a book " Nice girls don't get corner offices" .... I have read some behavior books but this one is quite useful in the Corporate world I am in ((My ex boss once asked me if i had taken some sort of training or read any books about professional demeanor ( i took it as a compliment))
Absolutely agree
When I got out of my previous relationship 10 years ago, it was so difficult to believe that I could still possibly have a life, fall in love again because the only man i ever wanted, loved was gone!
But guess what, that experiene taught me so much in my new relationship (the one I have with my current LG), instead of using my heart and nose diving into a relationship, I use my brain...... of course, heart still plays a big part, just not 100%
I started not having any income when i met my husband, now I will be making twice as much...... To be financially indepedent 简直太爽了! i am a firm believer in 经济基础决定上层建筑. .... So i agree with every word you said..... especially since I have been on both sides of the fence.
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法国餐的核心就是butter, butter, butter.. 我也喜欢鹅肝，可惜加州不让卖了。。
re, 生日时老公带我去吃的法国菜。。。。。从前餐到甜点一道没漏，看着每个盘子份量都好少，结果吃完还腻得不行。。。
btw, 我最近在看suits,正对你家那harvey 流口水哪，你咋就变心拉？
没变心哦。这不是第三季还没开始么。每周看Giuliana and bill，俺对着穿西装的高大帅哥bill口水花花啊。。我经常是看着show, 在那和个怨妇的一样嫉妒G, 尼玛你修了几百年的福找了这个100分的老公。。。好吧，我要知足。自家男人穿上西装我也想把他给扒了。。。。
嗯。。。harvey 很对我口味，这bill 不知哪儿长得不对我的劲，总觉得他一点不帅。。。。。。不是我的茶。。。我粉Edword Norton, 还有Ryan Gosling 这种uni 闷骚型的。。。
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我见过norton本人，本人和电影中的很多人物一样，颓废样，很有思想的一个男银，和大众hollywood出来的完全不一样的风格。当时和他聊了几句，就一感觉“颓废中的小清新”。我也喜欢ryan gosling.. 他的那个啥stupid crazy love, 帅的太销魂了有木有！还喜欢bradley cooper, 基本他俩的电影我必捧场。
太激动了，嬾也喜欢bradley cooper! 这家伙太帅了。。。。。。
俺这个星期出差几天。你们好好接着聊。。。。
回楼上的，我不觉得哎。我俩经过最初的磨合期，现在已经知道如何解决意见不合的问题了。我已经有2周没看书了。新工作很累人，我好久没business travel了，这又突然回到整天up in the air的日子, 感觉很不真实。。。推荐bravo的一个reality show, start-ups silicon valley. 很喜欢，record的show里总算又有点有营养的了;-) 希望能学到些东西。我30岁前也要有自己的business. my dream and my goal for a long long time. i know i will make it happen and be successful.
你好花心哈哈, 头像三天两头地变阿....
I wish I can go back and relive my 20s..... It's too late for me now, I can see my future in the Corporate world, somewhat senior management role and work in different parts of the world, along with my trailing spouse and children. Starting your own business is also my husband's dream. But i am not very hopeful, he is a visionary, not an executioner.......
Good luck!
我想问个问题，我挂牌认识一男，22岁，工作教养什么的都可以，只是年龄小了，我26了，我们date了两次，他表现都很好。这是我之前发的帖子，http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=303&Id=1328637 你说我什么时候问他结婚的话题啊？好像太早问不大好，可是他年龄这么小，不结婚的纪律太大了。
I think you should not put all your eggs into this one basket......Because very likely you two are not on the same page, (unless confirmed by him) he just started his dating life and you already want to settle down.
If i were you, I will still continue to seek potential "candidates" (since your goal is to get married)
And if the topic of "Exclusive dating" is brought up, you can start asking the question of " where do you see our relationship end up in 2 years" etc.
他昨天还说明年夏天要带我去哪哪玩。。。我总不能有好几个男朋友吧？
还早着呢的事你急什么? 答应着再说贝.......他买好票订好宾馆了没? 就是订好了也可以退的......(我是说如果真的没work out 的话)
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