有个问题问lz mm，bf总是喜欢说you are my best friend， 可是我自己总是觉得怪怪的，觉得听起来总是没有说kiddo或girlfriend那么亲密。。。

恩恩，他每次这么一说时都是他察觉出我不太高兴时，汗自己一个，怎么经常小作。。。可能我是觉得说best friend体现不出那种couple间的亲密感吧。很喜欢mm的性格呢！说的话都很有道理：）

小麦你教训的是，小作诒情，大作就要伤心啦！说到kiddo是因为bf总觉得在工作领域里他有很多东西要教我，就像是一个mentor一样，我自己也觉得在学业事业上比自己一个人奋斗有了更多的收获，可以说是1＋1>1吧，所以他常叫我kiddo，虽说只比我大两岁 >.< 小麦是在LA么？以后我relocate到西岸后可以聚聚呢 ：）

Hold on to yourself is important in a relationship. Know your bottom line and let your partner know it as well. Guys here are actually more attracted to those girls who can say "no" to them. They might think you are hard to deal with but they will truly respect you. If you show the attitude that you are willing to compromise as long as it does not touch your bottom line, he will really appreciate that. Sorry cannot type Chinese right now >.<

mm, I have been there before, we all have. And it took me two years to really move on. The way we feel about a guy will change with time, the reason that right now you still think that it was your fault in the relationship and he has everything you want is simply because you haven't met a new guy who is good enough to let you forget your last relationship. I used to blame myself a lot when I got broke up, always wondered those useless "what-if" all the time. But what's done is done, mm you deserve someone who will truly appreciate who you are, don't let the past haunt you anymore. The best guy in your life is yet to come! :)

same here, 我从小到大不同阶段的好朋友里有超过一半都是男的，就是那种会为对方做任何事，无话不说，能开任何过分的玩笑，互相心里却都知道永远只是好哥们的那种情谊。现在他们大多都成了家，我就自觉的不去打扰了，偶尔网上聊聊，默默关注，有事时能马上帮上他们就行。

omg 小麦你俩的对话怎么会和我们的这么像！！！ omg just can't believe my eyes! everything looks so familiar except for the big belly part, I use "round belly" or "tofu belly" instead.... @_@ And what I asked him was "fired that guy yet?" instead of "signed yet".... It's interesting that he also often starts the conversation by saying that "I've been working 14 hours today, my head hurts :(( How's belly today? Cute?" >.< I guess we both have a workaholic bf ;)

不带这么折磨人的，555, 还没吃饭呢。。。。。小麦有试过下面再放些小土豆么？个人经验，味道很赞 ；）