以下是引用cute-wheat在7/16/2012 12:43:00 AM的发言：
话说我看到你的ID, 加上你写的又全是英文,我没看前，第一反应是难道我男人上这来抓我来了？因为他曾经很喜欢这首歌。。有段时间天天唱。疯了。后来又是someone that i used to know...

Yeah He hired me to stalk you here :)

以下是引用cute-wheat在7/16/2012 12:43:00 AM的发言：
话说我看到你的ID, 加上你写的又全是英文,我没看前，第一反应是难道我男人上这来抓我来了？因为他曾经很喜欢这首歌。。有段时间天天唱。疯了。后来又是someone that i used to know...


JK. Nobody hired me to stalk anybody. Just loved your post and felt obligated to register a username and let you know that you are definitely a woman with great dating wisdom. Sorry Chinese is just so hard to type...but i guess I should at least try and not be lazy.

以下是引用cute-wheat在7/16/2012 1:06:00 AM的发言：
谢谢你的夸奖 ；） 只希望我的文字能让姐妹们在爱情的寻觅路上少走点弯路。幸福不是别人给的，而是自己给的。只有自己让自己变得快乐，不把生活的改变寄托在别人身上，才能收获一段美好的爱情。另外，如一朋友说的一样，love will come your way when your not looking for it.


I agree. Happiness comes from within. Those who aren't happy with themselves and wish to be 'completed' by someone else always end up disappointed. I do have something I'd like to discuss with you though. I like to have things my way. My ex said that it was 'my way or the high way'. Looking back, I honestly feel like such a b i t c h(not in a good way). I still feel great guilt even though it has been a year since the breakup, and I don't want to be like that again if I get into a new relationship. How much are you willing to compromise in your current relationship?

以下是引用cute-wheat在7/16/2012 2:08:00 AM的发言：
你会的。相信我。start off giving urself positive vibes. 我在失去我ex时，我也颓废了好久，我好友直接给我来一句，i dont give a shit about how you feel. get ur shit together and just f ucking do it. 也许你需要这样严厉刺耳的教育。看mm的英文，应该是个聪慧的女子。道理你在你的post里也说了很多，不要再沉溺于过去，过去的就是过去。时间再久些，你就会明白，你这样很不值。让我说的太狠些再血淋淋些，你ex根本没那么爱你，别跟我说什么so in love with you. 一个真正so in love with you的男人不会选择你这样那样的错误而选择放弃你，他会留在你身边，和你一起选择克服。所有选择move on的王八蛋前男友们都有这同一特质。你如果这能明白，那你还选择怀念过去，只能说，你在作践你的生命。我敢这么说，都是我的个人恋爱经验而来。我的ex就这样。我的现任让我明白，是你的就是你的，不是你的就不是你的。我本来也打算专门写我的现任和我ex 的事的



Thank you! You make me feel so much better!!! lol