Since she already said that it is too late to get abortion, I don't understand why so many people recommend it. When a fetus turns to 7 month, it can survive if you give birth to her right now. In this case, if you suggest abortion at this stage, you suggest murder. For the single mother's situation, I think you can keep the baby and send her or him to China to raise after you deliever. You can stay here to complete your degree. You don't have to stop your study just because you are pregnant. It is not that hard. I know many chinese students who stay at work till last minute to deliver the baby. Just ask your parents'help. They will come and take care of you and your baby. If you wanna keep the baby, just keep it. Why care so much about others'opinion? They won't hurt you or help you anyway. Just live the way you want. If you are not ready for a mother, you can get it adopted right after you deliver. See Friends? Monica adopted twins from a teenager single mother. As long as you can find a caring family to adopt your baby, it is possible to work things out.