I'm not sure you'll ever get over it...it's just in the bottom of your heart. People said "time will cure" it might be, just make you think you forget it...but there are always moments that will remind you the time you spent with each other, the talk you had, even sometimes you look in the mirror, you would see him on your own face. Those moments will hurt like hell and time will not cure... I was in the same situation, now 11 yrs passed, I still can't find a way out and don't think I ever will...