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(干货都没了)从online dating说到bloody gorgeous Harvey!

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2013-05-12 15:46:00

小麦MM,我也来说说我的经历,看看你的建议呢。我之前网上认识的一个男生,不过他距离我两个小时,我们一直也没有见过。他跟我说了好多次,我是他的type。他说了好几次过来看我,中间又有一次快成行了,后来我有emergency,他也没有来成。

前两周的时候吧,他有点儿不高兴了,说我从来不给他发短信,说觉得不够喜欢他。。这种情况下,我是该主动找他么?因为我最近final,他也说等我final完了他过来见我之类之类的话。我看了你的帖子,我非常同意女生不该主动。我们认识快两个月了,就是断断续续的发短信,一直没有拖着。他还跟我说,他自己的城市也很多女生,如果我不喜欢他,他就不过来看我了,说没必要浪费时间之类之类的话。

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2013-05-19 19:01:00

上次回复小麦MM的不知道为什么显示不了。上来更新一下吧。我这个周末见了这个男人,怎么说,真是把我恶心到了。首先跟我约了七点看电影。他知道我六点半才有空,也知道我没时间吃东西,什么都没说。电影是七点半的,进场之后他也不怎么主动跟我说话,给我的感觉就是有点傲慢。我们看的盖茨比,我为了找话说就问他看过书没有,他说看过,我说我也想看,他就说英语是你第二语言,不知道你能懂不。。

因为本来我就很累,两个半小时的电影真的很长。看完之后他就直接走了,就说第二天要工作。连句告别的话都没有。我们看电影也不能聊什么,。没见面的时候说的那些话真是,什么你是我的type,对我们很有信心,都是p话。我后来就直接把他删了。确实见了好,不见不知道他是个什么人。div class=quote>以下是引用cute-wheat在5/12/2013 5:19:00 PM的发言:

this guy is an idiot. i definitely dont appreciate the way he talked to u. he can express how frustrated he is becuz u never initiated a conv. BUT how dare he was that he told u there are lots of girls in his town, blabla. He talked as if he was in high demand. give me a break. AND its ur fault also - seriously, two months already? but no meet? ru kidding me? i dont care how far we are, if i like the person i met online, i need to see him in person within the first month. face the reality please.. be responsible for both parties.

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2013-05-19 19:03:00

之前还有一个男生,我们约过两次,都很愉快,我还以为进展很不错。谁知道第二次完了之后他就不联系我了。看来这个dating真的是一个漫长的过程。
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2013-05-21 23:41:00

我的iPhone app回复的总也看不到。。还制造错误的信息。。谢谢小麦MM。前面的一百多页上个周末都看了,小麦MM辛苦啦。希望MM万事顺利!!!
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2013-05-12 18:18:00

好吧,那我跟他见面。我觉得还是自己不太上心。另外一个男生跟我约了两次了,我都正好要出门,然后我跟他约的时间,他说他自己没时间,觉得这个男生也不是很上心,感觉是plan b...

以下是引用cute-wheat在5/12/2013 5:18:00 PM的发言:
this guy is an idiot. i definitely dont appreciate the way he talked to u. he canexpresshow frustrated he is becuz u never initiated a conv. BUT how dare he was that he told u there are lots of girls in his town, blabla. He talked as if he was in high demand. give me a break. AND its ur fault also - seriously, two months already? but no meet? ru kidding me? i dont care how far we are, if i like the person i met online, i need to see him in person within the first month. face the reality please.. be responsible for both parties.

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2013-05-12 20:42:00


你说的对。尽快跟他约见面吧。多谢啦。其实之前他都老觉得远,不愿意过来。我是不会主动过去找他的。
以下是引用cute-wheat在5/12/2013 7:41:00 PM的发言:
this guy is an idiot. i definitely dont appreciate the way he talked to u. he canexpresshow frustrated he is becuz u never initiated a conv. BUT how dare he was that he told u there are lots of girls in his town, blabla. He talked as if he was in high demand. give me a break. AND its ur fault also - seriously, two months already? but no meet? ru kidding me? i dont care how far we are, if i like the person i met online, i need to see him in person within the first month. face the reality please.. be responsible for both parties.

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2013-05-13 09:37:00


为什么总是回复不上呢。谢谢小麦MM。我这周就跟他约。最近朋友出了事,他也知道,也一直在等我考试完,见了再说。
以下是引用cute-wheat在5/13/2013 8:36:00 AM的发言:
this guy is an idiot. i definitely dont appreciate the way he talked to u. he canexpresshow frustrated he is becuz u never initiated a conv. BUT how dare he was that he told u there are lots of girls in his town, blabla. He talked as if he was in high demand. give me a break. AND its ur fault also - seriously, two months already? but no meet? ru kidding me? i dont care how far we are, if i like the person i met online, i need to see him in person within the first month. face the reality please.. be responsible for both parties.

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2013-05-13 09:38:00


为什么总是回复不上呢。谢谢小麦MM。我这周就跟他约。最近朋友出了事,他也知道,也一直在等我考试完,见了再说。
以下是引用cute-wheat在5/13/2013 8:36:00 AM的发言:
this guy is an idiot. i definitely dont appreciate the way he talked to u. he canexpresshow frustrated he is becuz u never initiated a conv. BUT how dare he was that he told u there are lots of girls in his town, blabla. He talked as if he was in high demand. give me a break. AND its ur fault also - seriously, two months already? but no meet? ru kidding me? i dont care how far we are, if i like the person i met online, i need to see him in person within the first month. face the reality please.. be responsible for both parties.

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2013-05-18 12:07:00


小麦Mm,之前给你的回复不知道为什么感觉死了。。。谢谢你之前的答复。anyway,我昨晚见了他了,感觉非常非常不好。。好吧,我们去看的盖茨比。其实他之前看过一次,又陪我看,我其实挺感动的。不过见面后,我就问他,你看过书么?我说我也挺想看的,他就说,英语是你的第二语言,不知道你能理解不?这个就把我气到了。


第二个,他自己买了零食,也不问我吃不吃,就自己在那边吃完就算了。。问问其实也没什么吧。

之前跟我发短信的时候说了可多好听的了,什么我是他喜欢的类型啊,什么对我们的发展很有信心云云。不过见面后也没见他特热情。。最后跟我说了一句,nice meeting u. Take care. 应该也是没下文了。不过对他印象真的是不好。。

以下是引用cute-wheat在5/18/2013 0:2:00 AM的发言:
this guy is an idiot. i definitely dont appreciate the way he talked to u. he canexpresshow frustrated he is becuz u never initiated a conv. BUT how dare he was that he told u there are lots of girls in his town, blabla. He talked as if he was in high demand. give me a break. AND its ur fault also - seriously, two months already? but no meet? ru kidding me? i dont care how far we are, if i like the person i met online, i need to see him in person within the first month. face the reality please.. be responsible for both parties.

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2013-05-21 23:38:00


谢谢小麦MM。之前iPhone app 总是回复不上。。。这个帖子前面一百多页上周末都认真看了。很有收获呀。不过看要关贴了,小麦MM万事顺利!!!
以下是引用cute-wheat在5/21/2013 10:38:00 PM的发言:
wow, what an assho!e! i am sorry ;( Glad you didnt waste much time on him... you did the right thing by blocking him. email exchanging and meeting in person can be quite different. its not a waste of time as long as you can learn from each date ;) keep looking. mr. right is coming ;)

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