以下是引用cute-wheat在4/28/2013 3:05:00 AM的发言：
Hi, I am glad you liked my post, and I hope you can really benefit from reading it. I feel obliged to correct some of your thoughts on here. I mean, yes, dating is a game. It's about how you play. BUT I don't believe in playing fake. You should remain warm and genuine. It's about what to say and when to say to the person you are involved. You certainly dont wanna reveal yourself (i.e. your deep thoughts) to the one you just met or you barely know. It's risky. WHY? becuz in the very beginning of getting to know each other, ppl tend to judge you from what you say as they tend to believe it's one of the most reliable resources that they can count on..although somebody would never admit it, it's true. If you dont want to lie, just don't answer the question or steer the conversation in another direction. plus, there is a thin line between lie and white lie. Sometimes you might want to consider giving that person a white lie if it doesnt hurt in the long run. Well, as for you, don't be too hard on yourself. We all make mistakes, stupid naive mistakes. As long as you dont indulge yourself in the wrong place, you are good to go. Learn from your mistakes, and stay positive. Love will come your way. Blessings. I cant type Chinese these days... Too lazy to install the software on this laptop..

以下是引用cute-wheat在4/28/2013 6:22:00 PM的发言：

hey, i was googling it but only found the book on amazon.. where can i get the audio file? is there any way i can just download it online? if not, i dont mind paying... pls let me know. thanks

以下是引用cute-wheat在5/9/2013 8:58:00 PM的发言：
I agree with sherrycous mm. First off, you guys are separated. That the divorce paper is not ready yet doesnt mean you cant date or have a bf. It's not cheating, and certainly has nothing to do with being morally wrong.. Don't feel guilty please.. In fact, you should be doing what you are doing. Put yourself out there and explore what other men have to offer. I dont believe its a good idea to tell this guy about your marriage problem. TOO EARLY! You guys are still in the email exchange stage. I dont know what you have told him - does he know you are separated? As long as he knows about this, you should be okay. NEVER say anything about your ex-husband in front of another man. A guy likes his woman to focus on himself, and has absolute no interest in listening to her talking about other men. Dont try to figure out a man with your "woman sense". It doesnt work that way. Okay, back to your new man - If you like him, you guys should have a talk over the phone (whats the big deal?!).. to see if you still have the strong feeling for him. As time goes by, once you guys are getting more serious, you can say, "my divorce should be settled soon".. something like that.. to ease his mind and/or assure him that nothing is getting in between of you two. As for now, do nothing. Just enjoy the dating process.