I am in a so-so university with a relatively big boss for my PhD. Last week, I got an offer from the top 1 PHD program in my field.

I has been thinking about the choice for several days. Can u guys give me some advice?

At first, I planned to give up this chance because there is no suitalbe place for my husband in that area. He will graduate 2-3 years later. If I stay here, I need 4-5 more years to graduate. Right now, we have a 4.5 hours drive distance.

However, after talking with some people, including with some experts in my field, I felt that program is much better than the program I am in now.

By the way, the new university is 8 hours drive or 4 hours fly from my husband.

What can I do?