抓重點，depending on what are important to you.

Such as, 媽寶 vs non 媽寶，父母不可以批評 vs 可以，要孝順 vs mutual respect, 中餐only vs 中西合璧，精細生活 vs 低要求，dink vs life around kids, spouse 第一 vs 父母第一，陽光派 vs 消極派, neat and clean vs messy and dirty etc, 大氣 vs 斤斤計較/小家子气，小氣 vs 大方，etc etc