"I, (Bride/Groom), take you (Groom/Bride), to be my
(wife/husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for
worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to
cherish; from this day forward until death do us part."



This is the one I used. I remember at the rehearsal I didn't know any thing
about the vowel. And I told the minister that I would have to look for it and
to prepare the night before the wedding. Then the next day, at the wedding, in
front of all the guests, the minister asked me, "did you studied hard for
the wedding vowel?"