看完更得了，写的真好。

可爱麦mm给推荐几本书吧，最近书荒，又不愿意轻易买，有些书写的太一般了，结果amazon书评还那么好。

没事儿就来看看mm的帖子，希望mm还是常来吧。 喜欢mm说的，各种看法都有个人经历backup。 智慧就是从亲身经历中回顾和反思产生的。 其实mm也别太觉得frustrated, 那些很有主见，约会很顺利的姑娘们，也不会经常到这里来开贴了。开贴的，都是需要帮助的，彷徨迷惑的小姑娘。这些小姑娘很容易被一段旁人看来很不靠谱的感情冲昏头脑。冲昏头脑的姑娘不是那么好劝的，如果个个姑娘都是冰雪聪明，玲珑剔透，那就不会有心版了，也不会有那么多家庭抓马，也不会有那么多wsn那么得意了。 少了你来，我会伤心滴。

这个楼最后一页坏了好几天了，让我来修复它！

agree! This mm is clearly trying to manipulate her boyfriend. This strategy is used so much by narcissists. She doesn't care about other people's feeling. She just wants to get her way.

好吧，可能我harsh了。 不了解全部。 只是觉得这个mm做事有点遮遮掩掩。 比如没离婚上eh.这本来没什么，如果她跟她老公两个人达成共识，各自move on, the only thing left was to get the divorce paper, then I think it is totally ok to put herself out there. Otherwise, she was unfaithful and cheating. Then, she sent him an email to explain "things", I don't know what she explained. Did she claim herself as a single woman when she was on eh? Then she was lying. Then, she said she got his response "in 30 minutes", and she said "I don't know" while clearly she wanted him to come along, that is manipulation.

好吧，是我jumpy了。 I had a manipulative ex. I was naive for sure. Whenever he had done something wrong or he felt that I was about to reveal one of his lies. He created dramas. he would say " I love you, but I just don't think you will ever understand that .....blahblah. we are from different worlds, you always think things are simple, only right and wrong. But in reality, I have to blahblah... or How could you not trust me. When all these stopped working. He would break up with me, and then came backing saying "I don't know". That is manipulation. Some people are really good at it, like my ex. some are not. like this mm. I know she is young, God love her and all that. But, hi, be truthful and treat others like the way you would like to be treated.