多谢DOLLHOUSE. 这倒不是钱的问题. 我在华人认识了不少非常友善和热情的ID.
一年多前我来华人的时候,主要就是为了FTP下载,因为要化钱,看了半天觉得不是特别
有地方做出贡献, 就没再来了.

今年年初买卖提革命,我尾随CHANEL, ROBINSNOW这帮热心的JJMM来华人, 觉得变化
很大,不断有新版面,信息量也增大了.正如这里不少ID所说,这里比较和气有家的感觉.
可是副作用是大家里外一家亲,好象反面意见就说不出来了.美人一贯直爽大气,
也许她这样做有难言之隐, 也许是她对这里有意见但是不方便说,这才跑到MIT上去
说.我觉得这样的事件发生是沟通不良,应该提倡百家争鸣,百花齐放,让在这里有
意见的ID们也有沟通的渠道. 一团和气的下面也许酝酿着革命,买卖提的事大家
都不想再发生.压制不是出路, 疏导才是上策.

这个贴子的题目其实和我本意不同,只是个引子.反正我的钱也够买好几个月的密码了.

随便讨论ID相貌我是不支持的, (举美女牌子除外). 对MM来说好像杀伤力尤其大.
因为所有的文章都删了,我无从考证,美人的自辩是什么?

SCAR MM说话我最爱听.又有什么交易了?

我没有生气,只是喜欢盘根究底.这里的说法和MIT上美人的说法不一样,她一直
挺好的,为什么回忽做惊人之举,太令人费解了.偏偏现场什么物证都没了.还有
我是觉得这里应该广开言路,愤青也不都是BT,大家应该多讲讲自己心里想的话.
[em00]

DOLLHOUSE讲话我也爱听.现在谣传太多. 说句老实话,我不满意不是针对这里的大大
们,只是昨天下午碰巧看见一些关于这个事件的某些ID的话,觉得非常不舒服. 雨花
被评论是很可怜, 我就是受不了某些ID趁机往自己脸上贴金.这个ID不是指雨花.

回去吃饭了.今天晚上约好和人下棋,估计又不上网了.重申一下,我不是到这里来
搅局的,只是作为华人一员关心下事态. 要是大大们觉得这个话题敏感,删了就是.
我当初挂个不怎么相关的标题就是怕引起纠纷. DOLLHOUSE, CSHELL, SCAR, 我
一直是很相信你们的.

虽然是财迷,我真的不是计较这点钱.因为错过了所以想知道这里领导同志们的精神.

昨天亮出不相干的贴是我删除的...我100%确定没有选择扣钱(而且印象中你也不是这几个贴得发贴人怎么删都不会扣到你的)...

真的得走了.HAVE A GOOD WEEKEND.

OK, I am back.

First, I apologize for not being able to enter any Chinese. I still haven't had time
to install the Chinese input after reformatted my hard drive last time

Second, strongly support what gonewith said, even though I am one of those
who like to say "ppmm" or a lot. Actually, the only emocon I remember
is .

Everybody likes compliments including me. It does feel good to be called
"ssgg" although I am aware the truth myself. Too much compliments,
especially overstatements, between a small group of IDs could leave bad
impressions as well. People will wonder whether they really think that way
or just out of polite. It will also cause alienation from newcomers. That is one
of the biggest complains in MIT BBS during the incident. Some people there
had to agree with others' opinions to survive, but once they had a chance,
they are among the first jumping out and criticizing. Isn't that what we want
to avoid in this place?

Last but not least, I think we should draw a line between friendly arguement
and vicious personal attack. While Malicious attacks are forbidden, occassionally arguements out of good wills should be treated with generosity. In a way,
people get to know each other better through communication and confliction.
We know, we compromise, then we grow, isn't it the growing pain that we have
to endure to achieve the mature stage?

Anyway, I think the measure for a success web forum is not only the volume
of visitors, but also the qualities of the posts. Personally I will try to water less
and contribute more. I would also hope that the moderators here make efforts
to lead their followers to express their opinions in more creative ways.

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