yes, you are a little overreacting. these issues won't be issues if you and your lg communicate well and care about each other. talk to you lg, if it doesn't work out then you need to consider to improve your relationship first.

You should tell your lg that you two make decision who get invited to stay with you not the in-laws. Don't be afraid to be alone if your lg leaves you. You can date at any age in this country.

All these are not big deals. The bottom line is "do you love your husband".

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MM is right, but I think right now for LZ, the most important thing is if LZ can live alone without her husband. Maybe she does not love him, but at least she feel not that desperate with him. English is quite difficult to explain this. I suggest MM use Chinese, you can set 魅力 level to prevent your ggpp seeing it.

我觉得你的感受是正常的。楼上的都是圣母。自己的家应该有权利发表意见，有权利做决定。至少有权被尊重，而不是这样被忽略。而且将来这种事情不会少，你要能忍就忍，更容易生病。

我觉得他们一家都很缺德。故意欺负老实人。

Now many ways can solve fertility issues, ivf, egg donation, surrogate mother, etc.

wow... gals, you were so considerate.. bless! The first English building/thread I saw on this forum.