所以娃爹内疚自己陪娃的时间不够吗？他都不内疚，你内疚啥。娃爹惭愧自己事业不如劈柴吗？他若不惭愧你惭愧啥。娃爹对自己作为人夫人父的表现满意吗？他没不满意，那你也别对自己为人妻人母不满意。

我记得有个女litigator得了个大概终身成就奖之类的就跟年轻女性说，some day you feel you are the worst lawyer ever. Some day you feel you are the worst mom ever. It is just natural. We've all been there. 也对也不对，we've all been there不等于natural，凭啥老是女人自省呢