wow... gals, you were so considerate.. bless! The first English building/thread I saw on this forum.

xiaomaomiaomiao 发表于 5/14/2016 11:52:37 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=2013871&postid=71675303#71675303]

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只要以后不要你将侄儿侄女当儿子女儿养就行。
yshe 发表于 5/15/2016 4:36:00 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=2013871&postid=71679673#71679673]

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你们工资差不多就aa吧，法律上也确立一下，不然万一离婚还得分你的，我老公钱都给我官，但是他花钱如流水，我们开始aa后我无比开心，他也省很多。
ledia170 发表于 5/15/2016 4:10:55 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=2013871&postid=71679530#71679530]

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我觉得楼主没说清楚，你们给公婆的钱是正常范畴内的，还是超出正常范畴的。如果是正常范畴内的，那就不能说自己贴补哥嫂了。钱给出去就是别人的了，他们愿意给谁，与你无关。。。
hijklmn 发表于 5/15/2016 3:39:55 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=2013871&postid=71679315#71679315]

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You should talk to your gp that you are willing to afford their expenses but you hope that the brother and his wife could afford themselves. If your mother in law likes you, I think she will understand. I don't think you will have any risk of divorce. It looks like you are the only one that your gp can depend on during their old ages.
ClearClean 发表于 5/15/2016 2:41:51 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=2013871&postid=71678929#71678929]

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